Well...let's look at this from my point of view. I spend a lot of money, time, and effort on this server. Suddenly you have a server then you post in MY forums about YOUR server to attract MY players. Then while in the server someone with an OOC tag (you were not playing as moneybags) starts saying "oh this server sucks and has lag and choke..everyone go to my server xx.xxx.xxx.xxx"...yeah...fuck that.
You just crossed the line in the sand and you and all OOC are permabanned. Anyone posting in my forums or in my server your IP will also be banned. I pay over a $1000 a year for this server out of my own pocket. I won't let someone shit on my lawn.
I am happy you have a great server. Enjoy it and stay off mine.
Have a nice day.