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<blockquote data-quote="Tenebrae" data-source="post: 124548" data-attributes="member: 5970"><p>Ha ha, I actually have thought so of many people. But there are those whose opinion I care about.... sometimes...</p><p></p><p>I have this "lady" friend who was like my best friend ever since I moved here, but she recently came out and said I didn't have a chance with the girl I liked. At first, I let that discourage me, and I almost gave up. But then I woke up one morning and realized, "I don't have to take that crap!"</p><p>As much as I value her opinion (on some subjects, anyway), I think she bases such things off of limited evidence. She's only really ever seen my "loner" side, and has only barely glimpsed my more outgoing side.</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>*sigh*, how true that is. I actually have had to put up with quite a few of guys like that. For example, I knew this one kid who was totally nice to her (probably acted a little TOO charming, which I don't think she was very comfortable with), but then he later found out that I liked her, and up and says in my face, "Dude, she totally likes me more than you."</p><p>As with my friend, I just thought, "Whatever, I don't give a crap about what you think!" I was tempted to say that in his face, but I didn't want to sink to his level, so I just rolled my eyes and said, "Whatever," and walked off.</p><p>And then there's always the times at things like parties and such, she just gets totally surrounded by tons of friends. I, being one who prefers smaller groups, rarely get a chance to talk with her on those occasions...</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>Yeah, well, I guess its just that I've been put down too many times, and I'm really worried that it'll happen again. Most of my crushes have ended rather badly ever since I was.... 13? maybe it was 14... can't remember. But anyway, back then, I was a lot "nerdier" than I am now, and thus, none of those girls didn't really like me... in fact, most thought I was really annoying.</p><p>But now I've gotten so far with this particular girl, and I'm just dreading the moment when it falls apart. Although, I do keep reminding myself that the last thing she would do is hurt someones feelings by telling them to leave her alone, which most of the other girls pretty much did.</p><p></p><p>I did bump into her at school today, at which point I asked her how the fashion show went and apologizing for not going. As always, she just said it was okay as if it wasn't a big deal.</p><p>She's so good at shrugging things off. It makes me feel kinda guilty, really, because she makes me realize how stubborn I am. Everytime someone wrongs me in some way, I usually hold a grudge against them for the next month or so.... in certain cases, it lasts a lot longer.</p><p></p><p>But she, on the other hand, just thinks nothing of it. Like this one time, I asked her on a date, but it ended up being cancelled because the people originally planning the date totally screwed everything up. I would have been devastated if she was the one who asked me, and she ended up cancelling it. But she just said, "Oh.... well, maybe some other time?"</p><p></p><p>I guess that, amongst a few other things, is the key. I gotta learn to quit being so angry about stupid things all the time...</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p><span style="color: #00CCCC">Hmmm... maybe she's suddenly shy... hope everything turns out okay.</span></p><p><span style="color: #00CCCC"></span></p><p><span style="color: #00CCCC">By the way, Fladian, have I ever mentioned before that your posts really help me think things out a lot better? You should be like a psychologist or something, lol.</span></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Tenebrae, post: 124548, member: 5970"] Ha ha, I actually have thought so of many people. But there are those whose opinion I care about.... sometimes... I have this "lady" friend who was like my best friend ever since I moved here, but she recently came out and said I didn't have a chance with the girl I liked. At first, I let that discourage me, and I almost gave up. But then I woke up one morning and realized, "I don't have to take that crap!" As much as I value her opinion (on some subjects, anyway), I think she bases such things off of limited evidence. She's only really ever seen my "loner" side, and has only barely glimpsed my more outgoing side. *sigh*, how true that is. I actually have had to put up with quite a few of guys like that. For example, I knew this one kid who was totally nice to her (probably acted a little TOO charming, which I don't think she was very comfortable with), but then he later found out that I liked her, and up and says in my face, "Dude, she totally likes me more than you." As with my friend, I just thought, "Whatever, I don't give a crap about what you think!" I was tempted to say that in his face, but I didn't want to sink to his level, so I just rolled my eyes and said, "Whatever," and walked off. And then there's always the times at things like parties and such, she just gets totally surrounded by tons of friends. I, being one who prefers smaller groups, rarely get a chance to talk with her on those occasions... Yeah, well, I guess its just that I've been put down too many times, and I'm really worried that it'll happen again. Most of my crushes have ended rather badly ever since I was.... 13? maybe it was 14... can't remember. But anyway, back then, I was a lot "nerdier" than I am now, and thus, none of those girls didn't really like me... in fact, most thought I was really annoying. But now I've gotten so far with this particular girl, and I'm just dreading the moment when it falls apart. Although, I do keep reminding myself that the last thing she would do is hurt someones feelings by telling them to leave her alone, which most of the other girls pretty much did. I did bump into her at school today, at which point I asked her how the fashion show went and apologizing for not going. As always, she just said it was okay as if it wasn't a big deal. She's so good at shrugging things off. It makes me feel kinda guilty, really, because she makes me realize how stubborn I am. Everytime someone wrongs me in some way, I usually hold a grudge against them for the next month or so.... in certain cases, it lasts a lot longer. But she, on the other hand, just thinks nothing of it. Like this one time, I asked her on a date, but it ended up being cancelled because the people originally planning the date totally screwed everything up. I would have been devastated if she was the one who asked me, and she ended up cancelling it. But she just said, "Oh.... well, maybe some other time?" I guess that, amongst a few other things, is the key. I gotta learn to quit being so angry about stupid things all the time... [color=#00CCCC]Hmmm... maybe she's suddenly shy... hope everything turns out okay. By the way, Fladian, have I ever mentioned before that your posts really help me think things out a lot better? You should be like a psychologist or something, lol.[/color] [/QUOTE]
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