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Message: <blockquote data-quote="imported_SuXoR" data-source="post: 153662" data-attributes="member: 7931">Well, today was my son's 1st birthday party.  Everything went well and now my wife (and I) can can calm down.  Since I am at my in-laws house and I am kind of bored I decided to post some random thoughts.  I have been working 7 days a week for the past 3 months so this is the first opportunity that I have had to really sit down and reflect.Two years ago I would have never guessed that I would be in this situation.  Two houses, a loving wife, and a beautiful son.  To be candid, our first pregnancy was not planned and I was scared shitless when I found out.  At the time my life was in disarray and I was in no condition to be a good father or husband.  But with some fear and trembling and huge lifestyle adjustment, somehow things worked out.It's not that any of you care, but the point that I am trying to convey is that children are a wonderful thing.  In my case, my son forced me to part with my less than productive tendencies and step up as a man.  So if any of you guys are on the fence about the whole "children" issue, I have to say that although the cost is great, the rewards are even greater.  Perhaps the gratest reward of all.That's all I have to say about that.</blockquote>